{title: The Parting Glass} {artist: Traditional (Scottish / Irish)} {album: 17th-century Scottish origin (broadside "Good Night and Joy Be With You All"); the standard farewell song in Scottish and Irish tradition; widely sung a cappella} {key: Em} {tempo: 80} {difficulty: intermediate} {phase: 3} {strand: S} {feel: hush} {lead_voice: mid} {lead_mode: solo} {lead_demand: showpiece} {harmony: M,H,B} {a_cappella: yes} {kit: acap} {set_role: closer} {lang: en} {country_tags: IE} {copyright: pd} {flags: a_cappella} {tags: a-cappella,chorus,closer,forecastle,harmony,irish,public-domain,scottish,shanty,slow,starter,traditional} {c: The perfect set-closer. The traditional Scottish and Irish farewell song — pre-1800 origin, public domain, sung a cappella at the end of every funeral, wedding, and pub night across the Celtic world. The Mayne Stays' dedicated study piece for blend, control, and silence.} {c: Three chords (Em, G, D) if accompanied — but the recommended performance is a cappella. Slow, around 70-80 BPM. Three full-harmony parts on every line.} {c: ===== STRUCTURE =====} {c: Three verses. Each verse is the whole song — no chorus. Verses can be sung solo (lead voice) with the band joining on the last two lines, OR sung in full harmony throughout (the more demanding arrangement).} {c: A cappella: pitch off a quiet guitar note or tuning fork before the first verse. Assign one person to hold the pitch — the most common a cappella failure is drifting flat by the end of the second verse.} {start_of_verse} Of [Em]all the money [G]that e'er I had I [G]spent it in good [D]company And [Em]all the harm I've [G]ever done A[G]las it was to [D]none but me And [Em]all I've done for [G]want of wit To [G]memory now I [D]can't recall So [Em]fill to me the [G]parting glass [G]Good night and [D]joy be [Em]with you all {end_of_verse} {start_of_verse} Of [Em]all the comrades [G]that e'er I had They're [G]sorry for my [D]going away And [Em]all the sweethearts [G]that e'er I had They'd [G]wish me one more [D]day to stay But [Em]since it falls un[G]to my lot That [G]I should rise and [D]you should not I'll [Em]gently rise and [G]softly call [G]Good night and [D]joy be [Em]with you all {end_of_verse} {start_of_verse} A [Em]man may drink and [G]not be drunk A [G]man may fight and [D]not be slain A [Em]man may court a [G]pretty girl And [G]perhaps be welcomed [D]back again But [Em]since it has so [G]ordered been A [G]time to rise and [D]a time to fall Come [Em]fill to me the [G]parting glass [G]Good night and [D]joy be [Em]with you all {end_of_verse} {c: ===== HARMONY ARRANGEMENT =====} {c: For three-part harmony (the way the Mayne Stays should approach this):} {c: LEAD — the melody as written above (sits in the lower-middle register)} {c: THIRD ABOVE — one full third up from the melody throughout} {c: FIFTH ABOVE — one full fifth up from the melody throughout} {c: For four parts, add a low octave below the melody on the last two lines of each verse ("So fill to me the parting glass...").} {c: The hardest moment: the long held note on "all" at the end of each verse. Stagger your breaths (one singer in, one out) so the note doesn't dip.} {c: ===== REFERENCE RECORDINGS =====} {c: The Wailin' Jennys — the gold-standard female-trio version (instructive even for a male band: listen for the blend).} {c: The Clancy Brothers — classic Irish folk arrangement.} {c: The High Kings — modern Irish a cappella arrangement.} {c: Ed Sheeran — surprisingly tasteful 2017 recording.} {c: The Longest Johns — full close-harmony shanty band arrangement.} {c: ===== PERFORMANCE NOTES =====} {c: This is a set-closer. Sing it last, after the loud songs are over. Stand close, in a tight semicircle. No instruments — or one quiet guitar fingerpicked under the harmony.} {c: The audience should be SILENT during this song. Don't ask for participation; the silence is part of the performance.} {c: End with the words still ringing in the air — don't immediately cue applause. Hold the moment.}